A few days ago I had a phone call from the Police. We ended up talking for around 90 minutes; not just having a chinwag but we were going through a statement about one of the recent crimes I suffered.
I haven’t talked for 90 minutes combined all of the last 2.5 months and was going hoarse by the end of it. He was a nice chap and we even had a bit of a laugh during proceedings and seemed to agree on almost everything; I’m pretty sure he would come on a Sherlock Holmes Walking Tour given a chance. He was also shielding and like myself not been out for for months so I guess we both enjoyed the company and I got to hear a bit about the weird things police have to put up with.
We ended up talking about computer systems and how information is stored and how accessible it is for police to get information which the paranoid amongst us always assume was to hand.
The thing I’ve been thinking about the most though is that no records are kept of people who do nice things or help people. Everyone knows if you do something bad then you end up with a criminal record but there is no such thing as a Good-Deeds record.
I just think that is such an oversight and so typical of how life is. It’s possible to spend your whole life being good and then one mistake, error of judgement or even bad luck can mean that officially you’re judged as being bad.
I’ve been thinking what a waste of time it has been all the thousands of old people I’ve carried bags for. Even serious things that go to court, if you’ve done good then no centralised records are held. Even in the last year I’ve been to court twice for intervening to help someone in a serious crime and in the last few years I’ve stopped a thief in his tracks, caught a shoplifter, tipped off police about someone revealing themselves in front of children, assisted a female police officer with an arrest and various other things.
Wouldn’t society be a little better if records were kept of these things. I know people rightfully get awards a community project or doing a vital if unfashionable job but what about the people who make the world go round by putting others before themselves?
It would also help with little perks whereas just as now if you have a criminal record you’re often a suspect for things or treated badly by others for good or bad, wouldn’t it be nice if for things like a Coronavirus Vaccine they could look at your record and say “Let’s give it to him, he always gives his seat up for the pregnant lady on the underground train” whereas the person who pretends he’s too busy on his phone to notice has to wait.
Promises of little perks would make people unexpectedly happy and if even a few more people played their part, it would make the world a nicer place. Maybe even offer official rewards like tax breaks to show that the good people are truly appreciated instead of treated like doormats.
I also find it weird when people die, especially politicians and after a life-time of animosity all of a sudden their opponents pretend they always liked them or praise their works when it is all a little bit too late and we know really they hated them.
Personally I won’t ever say bad things about even people I have good reason not to like but I definitely won’t pretend to like them. I remember in only my second year of work when there was a pretty obnoxious company director that thought they were amazing, only wanted to talk about themselves and didn’t care about anyone though often pretended they would for short term gain. One day they were shown the door and they came round the offices and everyone else was all being nice and saying how much they will mis them, me, I didn’t even turn my chair round from the computer. Why should I be nice to someone who made my life hell? That’s much the same reason I rarely went to Christmas office parties!
“If only everyone was like you Sir”, the police officer said at the end of the call. if we had a Good-Deed registry then there might be more of us than we know. Maybe that is why I have always like the story of The Recording Angels.
Now that is a thought. But I wonder if people who talk more, like your erstwhile company director, always talking highly about themselves, would have a better chance of getting into it.
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Yes I have found that to be true in my experience.
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Great ideas. I always enjoy your honesty and thoughtfulness.
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Thank-you, I hope you’re having a nice weekend.
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The Good-Deeds Record is kept by Santa.
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That is fantastically true 🙂
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So true Stephen! That is amazing and very admirable that you did all of that to intervene when baf stuff was happening. It would be great if there was a good deeds registry, I agree. Also, if the news focused on good things, all of us would probably be more optimistic in our outlook.
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Thank-you. I think so too just like everyone claps for the NHS carers here once a week. Whether it is helping some ducks across a busy road or spending a cold wet saturday morning volunteering to coaching children on a sportsfield. Why is news so overwhelmingly bad? One can understand it if it is a war or a virus but most news events though negative have very little impact on us. Instead of murders on the news why not saving a drowning child or dog. I really really like this memorial; modern equivalents should be everywhere…. https://stephenliddell.co.uk/2018/07/05/the-memorial-to-heroic-self-sacrifice-at-postmans-park/comment-page-1/
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Wow that is a really interesting post Stephen, the park is a little known treasure for sure. These people are the unsung everyday heros who help people, like the NHS heroes, very inspiring!
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I want to write a book on all the names in the memorial. I did a post about one, Alice Ayers and one of her descendants commented on it.
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That is amazing Stephen, it would certainly be an inspiring and uplifting book to write and read, and don’t we all need more of those kinds of books right now
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I’m sure that all these people were reported in their local news papers in Victorian times as they must have been seen as heroes back then to be commemorated, it’s so nice people today just go for a random walk and remember these brave souls.
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It would also make a good series on my blog for stories in New Zealand I am going to look for some. I find animal stories of courageous sacrifice very rewarding too
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